Sister - An angel

Hello Everyone,

Today i am gonna write about a relationship, A relationship which gives you a good friend, a true guide, a honest person, a tremendous enemy , we call this relationship brother-sister relationship. As i have a small sister so i am going to write about sister only and what all i feel for her.

In childhood days we use to fight a lot, at that time my sister is mt biggest enemy, i don't want to share anything with her because i have to share my parents love with her and as she is a small child in the house she gets all the attention which i use to get before her. But a time passes i start loving her, she became my one and only best friend, i star sharing all me secrets with her and she start doing the same  Today when i am running for money and try to achieve a good position in life for me and my family, i am missing the fights i have with my sister, i miss all the small small talks which we have to do before going to sleep, i miss a small girl who always comes to me and ask me to buy something for her or ask me to take her to roam around the street. In short i am missing my sister.

I feel every sister-brother relationship starts with the fight and ends with love. As a brother i can say that i love my sister more than anything, i can cross any boundaries and can overcome to any difficulty to bring a smile on her face. If i go back in my life and try to think about my sister i found some very small and very memorable and special moments which i cannot forget and which i want to relive. I found are small stories which i use to tell her, crazy ideas which we use to execute together, Fights we do, Secrets we share, teasing, etc ..etc.. , when i try to recollect those memories love from me to my sister increases.

I just want to say that i use to fight with my parent when i was small because they bring my little sister in this world and they are sharing there love between me and her, But now i just want to say thank you "Mummy" "Papa" for bringing her into my life, she comes as a angel and i always going to treat her as a angel and i am not upset that you are sharing you love between me and her but now i am also want to give all my love to my small sister .....I treat my sis as my daughter and can do anything for her..... Love you sis...missing you like hell

4th --- LOVE

Today i am writing about LOVE .......

When i was small, Love for me is my mother's voice
When i was in school, love for me is my New teacher
When i was in coaching, Love for me is a girl on red scooty
When i was in college, Love for me is my girlfriend
Now when i m in Corporate world, Love for me is money
when i will marry someone then Love for me will be my wife, then my children

And i am damn sure that when i will be at the age of 60's or 70's again my Love for me will be my Mother.


This is a summary about what i experience about love till now and my assumptions which i have for future. Now at the stage of life where i am standing now, i have only thing in my mind is to make money and secure my and my families future. But what about love, is it a love or is it a passion or is it a need. Now a days people misuse the word LOVE. people give the name LOVE to there needs. People always try to find love in big packages but actually Love is always there in small thing.

Love is in fathers hug, Love is in you sister's smile, Love is there in you Mother;s eyes. When you father gives you a hug and says son I am proud of you, When you do something for you little sister and she says "I Love you" and when you do something good in life and your mother see you her eyes will say everything. This is love for me, not that you buy something for you girlfriend and she says thank you and not even if you jump from a sky or do something extra ordinarily for your girlfriend. I do accept that after your marriage you also have love for your wife and that love is also became the love for your family because she is also in you family now, You should start loving her like you love you family. But before you marriage there is no love compare to your family. I am talking all this by taking a family in mind because love for a family for ME is at he highest priority.

There are infinite love in the world, but we all forget the values of it. I saw many people ignoring the value of love what they have. In childhood a son did not leave his fathers hand, Father picks him up if he is having any difficulty in walking, father doesn't worry about his injury and make his son sit on his shoulder. Mother made a good and delicious food for his son, She doesn't complain if the food is not there in good quantity she makes him eat as much as he wants, She fights with her husband for him or for thing thighs he wants. Both of them sacrifices there dreams for one demand of his, But still a son leave them for a single girl. I saw many families where a son hit there parents or make them work as a servant or else they ask them to leave his home. And this is all because his wife is not comfortable with them. I feel very bad for those who hate there parents because they don't know what they are leaving.

There are many people who sacrifice there life's for a girl or for any other person/situation/thing without thinking about there family. There are also people who hate there parents because of some personnel reason. I just want to tell them that those are your parents, what all they were doing is for you only, They did many things for you and they are going to do it in future too, you don't have any rights to fight with them or hate them, they might not aware of the trends going on nowadays, they even don't know what you friends want or what this world want, but they always know what you want and what is good for you. Always trust them, if you do that you will grow like anything.

Lastly i Just want to tell all those who forget what the love is please try to
remember

Who make you sit on his shoulder and roam in the market ?
Who taught to walk/run even to stand on your legs ?
Who finger you use to hold when you are small ?

Who makes delicious food for you when you are hungry ?
Who sings beautiful songs ( lori ) for you when you are not able to sleep ?
Who else don't sleep when you are ill and you are not able to sleep ?
Who make you eat as much as you want and himself/herself sleeps with empty stomaches ?
Who lost his/her self respect for you, when you did something wrong ?
Who never complaints when you make them cry or make them feel bad ?
Who still loves you even though you disrespects them or hate them ?
Who forgives you for any kind of mistakes you do ?
Who sacrifices his/her dream for you demands?

Please think upon these.

People says Love is blind, But i think love is not blind the only thing is we tend to ignore our true love.

Love is something to Give not only to take.



I am not a good writer nor my English is good, that is the reason i am not able to express my full feelings and emotions in this topic. Sorry if hurt anyone from my words. These are all my views.


I just Want to say I LOVE YOU "MUMMY AND PAPA"

3rd --- GOOD or BAD

Hello Everyone,

Today i want to elaborate my own views, Let me explain sometimes it happens when you have 2 different thoughts in mind for the same thing, Some people says its a good and bad human being inside you, Some says its all because you are thinking so much. But still i have questions in my mind for many things which happens in our society i want to elaborate my different view.

Today its not about anyone else its about why i have confusions, why i am not able to take decisions quickly.

Sometimes when i am alone i try to find out some answers and clear my views about the topics or incidents which happens in our daily life. For an example let us take a question and try to find answer for it, I always thought that is it necessary to cheat someone or to ditch someone for your personnel growth, is this the only way to be successful. Sometimes i think yes its important because in this world everyone is thinking about himself or herself, no one really care about the the feeling of other person so why should i think about anyone. On the other hand i think i am thinking bad for a person or society because they did something wrong with me, they ditch me in some point of time in life but then a thought comes to my mind is it right to do the same they are doing, i am hating them because they are not good human being for me so should i became like them and do it with others so they'll hate you to...... I never find a answer for these type pf questions because if we are not capable enough to grab out opportunity from other we will became failure in life, but if we do that we will became failure in our own eyes. So whats more important for you to be good human being and be proud to be yourself or became very success full, make you family proud, make your friend proud on you that you have achieve such a great position in life.

I am not being judgmental on any one of these, there are different situations which matters your choices, but still i am not able to get the answers for these kind of questions. Different people might give you different opinions but its only you who have to make the decision. I also made many different different  decisions in different different situations of life, I think it doesn't matter how good human being you are and how good decision you make its all about where are you standing right now, what all situation you are going through in life. What i realize till now in life is the only thing which matters in life is your "EMOTIONS" . I saw many people sacrificing there self respect for there family, for there son/daughter. Its all upon TIME.

This is life we cant find the answers of all the questions we have. The day we find all these answers we might not be here in this world. That will be the days we got our Nirvana.

2nd

Hello Everyone,

This is my second post and today also i don't have any topic to write upon like yesterday. But still i will write, i will make my followers suffer from pain, i'll make sure that after reading my blogs they should stop reading any blogs HAHAHAHAH ....

Jokes apart, but the fact is seriously i don't have any topic. So, today also i am going to write on any random topic.
Let me express my views on "Priorities and Behavior of an individual in his life". And this is all based on what i experienced till now.

Sometimes i thought why a human being have so many emotions, so many expressions, is this we have it from our birth ? or we tend to learn it by our experience? If we think about it deeply we will find that we don't really know what is sadness and happiness and any other emotions/feelings. when we take a birth and see this world for the first time we don't know how to express or react . This is all we learn from our experiences or else i should say this we learn from the people around us. There are always two different emotions of two different human beings on a single thought.

I think its not something we have it in us from our childhood its all about the priorities we set. For example there is a old man holding a big bag and try to climb stairs and on the other side there is a beautiful girl doing the same thing at the same place and at the same time, if you are there its your priority which makes to help any one of them. Sometimes in life you have 2 choices like you have 1 day and you have to meet your girlfriend and your grandpa but you cant meet both of them in one day you have to choose anyone of them, or in valentines days you want to meet our Girlfriend or your parents,Its priorities which effects your decisions. . As i am talking about priorities i want to share my personnel experience that at the time when i was committed my girlfriend also asks me "why you are always with your friend and not spend anytime with me" at that time i always says that "we are going to spend a life together but friends will not be there always" . That time i thought that this is true and this is the only reason i always stays with my friend , but after sometime i realize its not what i think its all about the priorities which i set, when i realize that its to late for me to save my relationship. We always give excuses for not being there with him or her when they need us and we say that we stucked in some other imp work or we have to go to some other place its all lie, no one could stop you to do some ting if you really wants it. So i always suggest people that its always your priorities which makes you feel bad or good not anything else.

There is a saying which says "expectations always hurt" and its true, you know why because what you feel about someone else might not enough for him/her or it might be much more than he/she deserves. Always make decisions by setting your priorities or i might says always choose the thing for which your heart says, yes that's it, that's the thing you want or this is the thing which will make you happy.

I have so many thoughts to put in but i don't have words to express. It'll take time to me to became a good writer. Nevertheless i started and that's the big thing for me. So for today its enough i am feeling sleepy now because it is 3:52 in the morning and i am feeling very very very sleepy.

Thank you very much if read all of this nonsense which i wrote or if you haven't read all of this then double thanks because no now one knows that how bad writer i am ;-)


3:55 AM
Sunday - 22nd Oct 2011

1st

Hello Everyone,

This is first time when i am blogging, hope it lasts for some days ;-).

Today there is nothing i can talk about but still i have to write something otherwise everyone associated with me and wants to follow my blogs will never read my blog again.

Ok, so as today there is no specific topic to write upon we will talk/write about something random, let me elaborate my views upon newly born baby.

When a child born what he do first, what will he do with all the things given to him or anything which he is watching for the first time. He "EXPLORED" and because of it he learns. As i was born and brought up in India i know he culture over here, but here are some questions i have and i am not able to find the answers for that. for the example :- everywhere in India, from north to south where there is a vast difference in culture and there life styles, a country where the official figure of 'mother tongues' spoken is 1,683, of which an estimated 850 are in daily use, A country with huge number of population and where there are large number of religions present, in that country every new born child from last...... i don't know from how many years knows water by a same name which is "MUM MUM".

I also experienced that whenever you give something in 6 months or 1 year old baby's hand he hold it so tightly that it will never fall else he throws it. If you give a thought upon it you will find one thing that he/she don't know the value of the prices he/she also don't have any fear of loosing something precious he just feels it and if he/she likes it then only the thing remain with him otherwise you will find that thing into pieces or you'll find it somewhere in the corner of the room. If you see a small baby he/she don't know what is right and what is wrong, everyone loved an infant because his/her heart is so pure that he/she will never hurt anyone. They don't expect anything from anyone. In India people compare newly born baby with god. You know why they do that because his/her heart is so pure that no one could not compare anything in the world with it.


Whenever you want to see a serene beauty with a peace, i suggest go to the baby's room when he is sleeping. If you watch him/her sleeping it feels so calm and quiet that there will be no other place in the world you feel so peaceful.


Now i think its okay for today i am not use to write this much in a day, else i should say i write or blog but life teaches you something everyday and you have to catchup with it Because our good old days are finished when we were small.